But if you actually sit down and listen to a transgender person—or better yet, spend time within the broader LGBTQ+ community—you will discover a radically different truth.
Trans culture is queer culture. When we support trans siblings, we strengthen the foundation for everyone—whether you’re gay, lesbian, bi, or questioning. One of the most beautiful gifts the transgender community has given to LGBTQ+ culture is the evolution of language.
We are learning that pronouns are not "preferences"—they are introductions. Asking someone for their pronouns ("Hi, I’m Alex, I use he/him") is a small act of radical respect. It tells the person standing in front of you: I see you. You are safe here.
There is a misconception floating around that the transgender experience is defined solely by struggle. Turn on the news, scroll through social media, or glance at a political headline, and you will likely see our community framed by debates, bathroom bills, and healthcare restrictions.