To provide a guide on straight college men like Spalding ( possibly referring to Spalding Gray, but I assume you mean a college-aged man) and Rhett Zip (assuming you mean Rhett, one half of the duo), I'll offer some general advice:
I think you might be referring to a popular comedy duo, Rhett & Link, from the YouTube channel Ear Biscuits. They often discuss various topics, including their personal lives and experiences. Straight College Men Spalding And Rhett Zip